Showing posts with label Influence. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Influence. Show all posts
SURROUND YOURSELF WITH THE RIGHT PEOPLE
SO important to be around people that are hungry, and will allow you to grow and improve. Get yourself round winners!! Lose the negative influences.
How to Add Stunning Value and Be More Influential
Adding value is the key folks. Brendon Burchard sets this out really well. Hope this is useful.
It's Never Too Late to Become a Millionaire | Jack Canfield
Great advice from Jack Canfield. It is NEVER too late!!
Subliminal Messages: Fact or Fiction?
Get ready
for a shock, a statement that might blow your mind and send you reeling in
disbelief:
Subliminal
messages work!
Despite
some bad press to the contrary, evidence exists that proves subliminal messages
can be an effective way to achieve a range of goals under certain controlled
conditions. If you want them to work for you, here’s what you need to know:
- Not all subliminal message
delivery systems are created equally. Make sure you get yours from a
reputable supplier who has been in business for a long time and has plenty
of satisfied customers.
- To make subliminal messages
work in your favor, you need to be motivated to change. If you have a
passionate desire to lose weight, to quit smoking, or to improve your
productivity, for example, then subliminal messaging technology will help
you achieve your goal.
- Using subliminal messages to
enable you to make changes in your life is not a cop-out. They’re just
another tool you have at your disposal to break bad habits and encourage
new behaviors.
Here’s
another way to look at it. If subliminal messages don’t work, why is there so
much information written about them? Why do so many companies provide
subliminal audio and video sessions? Surely if those sessions were useless,
people would stop buying them and the companies would go out of business. But
that’s not what’s been happening.
The
Scientific Basis for Subliminal Messages
Your brain
is the most complex machine known to man. It’s so complicated in fact, that even
today we don’t know all that much about it. Some things, however, have been
known for centuries.
We know,
for example, that humans have a conscious and a subconscious mind. In simple
terms, your conscious mind is only active when you’re awake. Your subconscious,
on the other hand, is always active, and that brings up fascinating
possibilities.
In the
course of your day, you might hear or see something for a split second. In your
conscious state you don’t take any notice of it, maybe because you’re rushing
to get back to work after lunch, or struggling to get your car into the
supermarket car park, or focused on what you’re going to prepare for your
evening meal. You’re busy, there’s a lot to do, and there are only so many
hours in the day. Makes sense that you couldn’t possibly focus on every single
thing that happens.
Your
subconscious mind, however, isn’t burdened by those decisions. It doesn’t have
to worry about tonight’s meal, or driving the car, or getting back to the
office, and so it’s free to let whatever else is going on around you drift
right on in. So even if you’ve been exposed to “something” for a split second,
your subconscious mind stores it away and you will be able to recall it at a
later date.
It Just
Pops Into Your Head
Ever sat
watching a TV quiz show when a question came up that you answered
instinctively? Then wondered how you knew it in the first place? It happens all
the time. The information goes in, without your knowledge, and then when you
need it... bam, it’s there. That’s the power exploited by subliminal messaging
technology – the limitless power of the human mind.
The most
important thing to remember about all this is that you have to be motivated to
want to change. If you really want to do something about your figure, or your
health, or your productivity, then subliminal technology will assist you in
getting there.
To take advantage of
subliminal messages, check out the Subliminal360 app for your PC at http://affiliates.inspire3.com/a/jim
Applying The Law Of Attraction In Everyday Life
By Brian Miller
Most certainly, you have found yourself in the situation where you simply stopped whatever you were doing to make a sort analysis of your life and reached the unfortunate conclusion that you are not who you have always imagined you would be. Instead of just feeling sad about this whole problem, you could just rely on the law of attraction and do something about it. A short law of attraction explanation is the fact that what you think and imagine is what you attract.
Even though your first impulse might be to think that is just something that successful people say to justify reaching their goals and not tell you their secrets, you should know that you are wrong. Most individuals do not even begin to realize just how this law of attraction works and how easy it can change their lives. If you are ready to apply the healthy principles associated with the law of attraction to your own situation, here’s what you need to do.
Start by making an in-depth analysis of your personal and professional life. Are you happy about what is happening in these departments? This is the time to ask yourself the most difficult questions and actually find an honest answer to every single one of them. As soon as you start being positive, you are going to find all sorts of opportunities that you can take advantage of so that you can lead a different life, a better one. No matter how you look at it, if you are not being true with yourself and what is preventing you from achieving your goals, you will not be able to find an effective solution to any of it.
Do not mistake this amazing law of attraction as an excuse that you can use when you do not want to do anything and just decide to think positive. Obviously, that is not enough. Despite the fact that positive thoughts are a powerful weapon, you will still need to put in the work that can help you get to where you want to be. Instead of just feeling sad about this whole problem, you could just rely on the law of attraction and do something about it. If your destination is a life where you have the ideal weight, great friends or more than enough money, the law of attraction will allow you to get there.
It is all a matter of understanding that it all begins with your thoughts. But every single positive thought must be materialized one way or the other. As soon as you start being positive, you are going to find all sorts of opportunities that you can take advantage of so that you can lead a different life, a better one. Cut out all the negativity in your life and toxic people that do not allow you to evolve as an individual. Most individuals do not even begin to realize just how this law of attraction works and how easy it can change their lives. You will soon notice that your overall state of mind is much better than it has ever been.
If You Can Dream It, You Can Do It
By Rosemary Sumalinog Gonzales
A dream is a vision of a compelling future. It provides
inspiration and motivation for the dreamer. The more critical the dream is, the
easier it is to go through the inevitable setbacks in life. Expect to be
knocked down but never give up. You can make your dream happens.
Making dreams happen only proves what kind of individual we
are. It means we know what we really want in life. Everyone has a dream but it
takes a lot of patience and hard work to realize it.
Putting your dreams into reality is a serious business. This
is not the type of dream when you are asleep but the kind of dream when you are
aware about it. It is the natural human drive to find meaning by expressing
unique talents and sharing those talents with others.Truly successful people
are big dreamers who find their dreams and inspire others. They make a
difference.
Your knowledge is not enough. No matter how intelligent you
are, if you do not couple your dream with action, it's nothing. To accomplish
your visions, you must take action. Take small steps at a time. Don't be afraid
to dream. If you put hard work towards something, anything is possible. It can be
achieved through your determination. Every great success begins with a dream.
A dream is what it takes to make things happen. In order to
transform our dreams into reality; we must wake up and chase our dreams. We
must not dream of acting when the circumstances are ripe or perfect, instead,
we must create those circumstances for ourselves because success will never be
served to us on a platter. We need to work hard. It is a gradual, continual
process. Success cannot be achieved with just one fell swoop. It requires
patience and perseverance.
According to some, the people who actually do something are
not dreamers; rather, they are men of action, who fill their lives with
positive action and result-oriented performance. However, it is necessary to
understand that it all begins with a dream. No matter how unachievable a task
might seem, what the human mind conceives it achieves.
Dreams are the stepping-stones upon which our successes are
laid. More essential than conceiving a dream is to pursue it even in the face
of dire adversity. Mere dreaming has not led anyone anywhere but when you
couple it with action, it will lead you to what your heart aspires.
Thus, you can make your dreams come true if you
wholeheartedly work to achieve them.
Whatever objective we have needs to be clearly charted out
and the means to achieve such a dream should be well-defined.
THE ONE WORD THAT BUILT MY SUCCESS | A Gary Vaynerchuk Original
Not the word you would expect to come from Gary Vee. But SO right. Are you in it for a sprint or a marathon?!
Lessons From Netflix - You Have the Ability to Change Your World
By Kathleen C Olivieri
Raising two daughters meant one thing in our house - we
watched a LOT of "chick flick" movies. We watched movies such as
Hairspray, The Holiday, How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days, Titanic, Legally Blonde,
and the list goes on and on. Most were for entertainment, but many movies had a
hidden lesson that we talked about. Yes, there are "Lessons Learned"
when watching movies!
The New Movie Theatre - Netflix
Now that my daughters have gone to college, my husband and I
have forayed into the world of Netflix. So many series and movies to watch!
A friend on Facebook recommended a Turkish show, Kurt
Seyit and Sura, which is a historical drama based on a true story.
To spare you the 42 hour-long episodes, the premise of the
story is this: an officer of Turkish descent and a wealthy Russian heiress fall
in love in the early 1900's. Seyit, the officer, survives the war, then takes
Sura home to meet his family. They hate her because she is not Turkish. Seyit
and Sura flee the Russian Revolution and settle in Istanbul. Through their adventures,
their love is not enough to keep them together. Ultimately, Seyit and Sura
never marry.
We loved this series! Not only were the costumes beautiful
and historically appropriate, there were beautiful horses, interesting
characters and the acting was spectacular.
What are the Lessons Learned from Seyit and Sura's Love
Story?
Lesson 1: Personal Responsibility
You must take responsibility for your life. We all want to be loved. Yet,
ultimately, YOU are responsible for that love. YOU are responsible for getting
love and keeping it.
How does this translate to your professional life? YOU are
responsible for your career and professional happiness. If you want to progress
in your career, invest in yourself! If you are not happy in your career, then
take responsibility to make a change in yourself or your work situation.
Lesson 2: Perseverance
You must persevere through the good and the bad. The world
will change and people will try to sabotage you.
Yet, YOU must be strong to persevere and NOT allow the world
and people to have the power to sabotage you.
How does this translate to your professional life?
The world is changing around us. The jobs of yesterday may
or may not be available tomorrow. For example, the retail industry has changed
due to social commerce and online shopping. Many brick and mortar stores are
closing. What does this mean for the people employed at these stores? What's
next for them?
Will You Adapt in the Changing Economy?
I predict that many of the smart, savvy displaced people
will turn social commerce and go into business for themselves - opening their
own micro-enterprise using the very channel that pushed them away from a career
they may have loved! You have the ability to change with the world! By the way,
if you are interested in building your very own micro-enterprise, contact me
and I can tell you how YOU can do this without moving or going back to school!
Conclusion
Unlike Seyit and Sura, my husband and I have been married
for almost 28 years. There is no secret to relationship success other than
personal responsibility and perseverance.
The same is true for our professional lives; there is so
secret to success other than being responsible for your success and persevere
when others have quit.
This is How to Let Go of Being Attached to Situations in Life
By Tony Fahkry
"I have no idea of what tomorrow will bring, so I wish
to prepare for it."
"You fear tomorrow - not realizing that yesterday is
just as dangerous."
The delightful short tale by Anthony de Mello underscores
the fact that our attachments to the past can be equally harmful.
We must release our hold of yesterday's concerns and bring
our awareness to the present moment, if we desire to seek contentment.
It's a given that most people want to experience happiness
and joy. There are many ways to achieve it and while some attain it, others
don't. However, it is no less a central desire to seek fulfillment in our
everyday life.
We want happiness to fill the cup when pain overflows. Yet
the irony is we experience more pain and suffering than joy allows.
We attach our desires to people and situations, holding on
tighter than we should. We stress about matters that impose upon our happiness
and become discouraged.
Things don't always go as planned. People let us down. The
road ahead gets bumpy.
Buddhist author Lama Surya Das writes in The Big
Questions: How to Find Your Own Answers to Life's Essential Mysteries: "As
Mark Twain said, 'It's not what we don't know that gets us in trouble, but what
we are sure we know'. We attach to one or more particular ways of seeing ourselves
that, neither accurate nor helpful, entrap us in mind-forged forged manacles,
self-limiting beliefs, and unfulfilling, misdirected behavior patterns and
desires. We fall into living as we are not and lose who and what we actually
are."
The Art of Detachment
Detachment means to disassociate yourself from intended
outcomes. It requires letting go of fixed ideas how life should be.
If you commit yourself to getting what you want, you set
yourself up for pain.
For example, if you base your day on your partner's mood or
getting the next promotion at work, you allow outward conditions to dictate
your feelings. You are trying to control your world instead of trusting the
process of life.
"Normally we think we see reality, but what we see is
our own subjective perceptions, filtered through all of our associations and
desires, as well as through language and conditioning," states author Ezra
Bayda in The Authentic Life: Zen Wisdom for Living Free from Complacency
and Fear.
Let Go of Attachments
This requires practice, though it is possible to let go of
attachments that no longer serve you.
You might ruminate on the past and hold on to things that
don't matter anymore. What if you were to enjoy the richness of the present
moment instead?
Make it a point to let go of anything that's not for your
highest good, especially expectations.
Do you often worry about the future?
Do you base your feelings on whether you are moving forward
in life?
Either way, make it a priority to let go of attachments by
cherishing the depth of each moment. Move beyond your negative thoughts and
allow life to be exactly as it is.
Letting go is grounded in the wakefulness of the present
moment being perfect as it is. Whilst you expect things to be a certain way,
detachment means to let go of these thoughts.
"When we see through our attachments by fully
experiencing them, the result is freedom. When we can see and experience life
without the filters of our judgments and demands, the result is appreciation
and the quiet joy of being. When we see through our fears, the result is
love," states Ezra Bayda.
Let Go of Expectations
Expectations set you up for disappointment. Whilst it's
normal to receive respect and love from others, sometimes people don't return
the respect or love you deserve. Happiness means acknowledging this, so you
avoid hanging your hopes on people fulfilling your emotional needs.
If we are attached to life being a particular way, we are
assured of being hurt when things do not follow as expected.
The solution, you ask?
Let go.
Consider psychotherapist David Richo's view in The Five
Things We Cannot Change: And the Happiness We Find by Embracing Them: "We
cannot take refuge in feeling good, because that cannot be sustained. What is
sustained and sustaining is a yes to what is, 'taking the good with the bad'.
This can only happen when we have no attachment to how things should be."
Let Go of Outcomes
Do you want to work toward your goals and dreams while
letting go of outcomes?
Focus on pursuing what is meaningful and give it your
undivided attention. People pursue what they consider will make them happy, yet
remain miserable now.
To work towards a prosperous future, flow with the currents
of life instead of being on a roller coaster ride of ups and downs.
Steady is the way.
Author Jan Frazier offers the following wisdom in The
Freedom of Being: At Ease with What Is: "When you are free, you no longer
experience attachment - to the roles you play, to possessions, to ideas, to the
outcome of action, to the people you love. You are free of ferocious desire, of
the driving 'need' to get (and keep) what you want."
Fulfillment Comes From Within
As much as we want to believe that success and happiness
happen 'out there' - it simply isn't true.
Happiness and fulfillment emerge from within.
Ask those who are content what their secret is and many will
tell you, they learned to simplify life and let go of attachments.
They loosened their grip and allowed life to serve them.
They are grateful for the pleasant and unpleasant moments because both
experiences contain the seeds of opportunity for growth.
They are unattached to how life should develop and trust
every experience serves their highest good.
Think back to a time you released your attachments to
something.
Maybe it was resentment or holding on to a particular point
of view. As you let go, you no doubt felt relief and moved on.
That is the significance of letting go. You let go to move
forward, instead of dragging the past behind with you.
"When you are unattached, you have inner freedom. You
have no investment in a particular outcome, and so you do what is necessary in
the moment. You explore every option and are receptive to all new information.
You do all that you know to do, and then trust, because you have no attachment
to either the result or how the result is produced," affirms authors
Charlene Belitz and Meg Lundstrom in The Power of Flow: Practical Ways to
Transform Your Life with Meaningful Coincidence.
So, release your hold on tomorrow. Do not blemish the
present moment with your attachments of how it should be.
If you are anxious about a particular matter, simply let it
go. Drop it as though I were handing you a hot piece of coal.
Keep letting go until you get to a place of nothingness and
have released all attachments and suffering.
Only then will you know true peace and joy in its entirety.
How to Develop a Millionaire Mindset | Jack Canfield
SO important to adopt a mindset that will enable you to see business, investment and wealth building opportunities all the time.
How To Reprogram Your Mind (for Positive Thinking)
Really like Brendon's content and style to his videos.
How to Pursue a Lifelong Legacy
By Casitro Kyeva Submitted On January 03, 2017
Source
The awful fact is; we can't rewind the hand of time and have alternative choices but the good news are; everyday, we can decide to do things that will impact lives long after we are gone.
A legacy is brought by making a choice to pursue what's important in life. Many of us think is about the medals and the records we set while alive, but we are wrong. The foundation of a legacy is formed by the people we transformed rather than the achievements we have acquired. Legacy is the continued positive influences over people after we are gone; awards and possessions don't have the power to do that.
We might have achieved a lot materially but if we are to build yourself a legacy for ourselves. We need to stop pursuing our own success and start touching lives.
Let's Start today...
Worth Over Success
Been successful in life is a good thing, but it isn't enough. Running after success alone will not ultimately satisfy us.
Most of the middle age is successful, but they don't feel fulfilled with their lives. Many feel they lack the accomplishment they deserve, and want to do something significant that will make more difference in their lives.
I have noticed that the current generation is more passionate about carving out a name for itself; they have known it's not all about getting jobs and thriving in personal success. We need to focus on things that matter; we need to help people by equipping and developing them to realize their full potential.
Ultimately, this will yield satisfaction and fulfillment within you.
Influence Over Rewards
It's honorable to be awarded and celebrated for your accomplishments. Trouble is, with an award you are the only recipient; its significance ends with you.
Influence, its benefit does not end with us, but starts with us. Our effort to develop and transform lives is the sure way to influence them, you will remain in their souls and your influence will be passed over other people for a long time. This is the kind of legacy that outdoes statues and streets that have been named after you.
Impact Over Earnings
It's easy and normal to make earnings our main objective in life. It's excusable because it puts food on the table and pays the bills. Consider that money will never be enough and wealth does not leave us fully satisfied after all. It's just a tool we use to keep our lives running smooth. Impact brings satisfaction, earnings bring emptiness.
As I mentioned earlier, touching and developing people is everything. Investing in someone's life adds more value to them, for they will eventually turn around and touch more people in their circles.
When we focus on developing those around us rather than our personal success, we will find fulfillment and satisfaction within ourselves. We need to plant seeds of change in the lives of others. We may not live long enough to see them thrive, but the fulfillment that we created a legacy will always stay within us.
"WE HAVE MADE AT LEAST A START IN DISCOVERING THE MEANING IN HUMAN LIFE WHEN WE PLANT SHADE TREES UNDER WHICH WE KNOW FULL WELL WE WILL NEVER SIT." Elton true blood.
We all need a Legacy, it can't be bought but pursued by making a decision to carry people with you in your walk to the hall of fame, wealth and success. Transform their lives and they will transform others too; they will sing your name even after you are long gone.
HOW SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE THINK - Motivational Video
Another great motivational video for you to enjoy. How do the 1% think?
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