Gary Vaynerchuk & Tai Lopez Interview: Audit Who You Are and STOP Hoping
Very interesting way of cultivating success and sustaining focus and energy. Audit who you are and get real!!
Change Your Attitude to Change Your Life
By Camille Goscicki
Have you ever known a time in your life when a bad attitude
helped you with what you were dealing with? How about someone else you've known
who walked around with that cloud over their head, expecting life to rain on
them at any moment? Did their bad attitude fight off the storm?
Personally, I can't think of any time in my past when my bad attitude solved
any problem or concern I was facing. If anything, the attitude I carried
brought on more misery, and a lack of clear thought that could have helped me
make things better.
Having a bad attitude affected my self-esteem, my decisions,
and my choices in life. Negativity made me fear life and what was ahead of me
in the future. Somehow, some way, my attitude changed, due to my marriage, the
birth of my daughter; and the death of my only brother, among other life
experiences.
I got to the point in life where I'd say to myself,
"This isn't a dress rehearsal, kiddo. This is life. If you're going to
live it, you might as well live it well." So I chose a new perspective. It
worked for me. I'm not afraid of what lies ahead anymore, and I face life with
an "active pessimist" attitude. I may complain, criticize and get
ticked off about stuff that happens, but then I take action and do something
about it (if I can). Sometimes there's nothing I can do except let the storm
ride out.
I'm sure you've seen those people who constantly complain
about getting older, who feed into the old-age stereotypes, and who use age as
an excuse to let their bodies and minds go to waste. I've seen it myself, in
people decades younger than me. What a terrible way to age!
Vital aging requires an empowered attitude.
I didn't just pull that belief off the top of my head. Aging
experts and researchers have shown that a person's attitude affects their aging
process. Many studies have shown that:
• Older people who believe in positive aging stereotypes live longer than those
who believed in negative stereotypes.
• Older people with a positive attitude take better care of themselves, and may
recover from illness/injury faster.
• Older people who stay engaged in life (e.g., with lifelong learning) have a
higher quality of life than those who don't.
• Often, older people are happier than younger adults. (Face it, we know we
have less time on this earth, so it's important to make the most of it!)
Why "get" older when you can "grow"
older? When you reach the age of 40, or 50, let go of the "over the
hill" thinking. Start climbing again. There are new hills to challenge
you. Change your perspective. Let go of those stereotypes. Quit complaining.
Make physical and mental fitness a priority. Fight ageism. Stay connected.
Laugh out loud. Remain flexible. Keep learning. Take charge of your life.
The Power of Habit: Setting Up "Triggers" to Sustain Habits
Stay on track, or fall off...The right habits keep you on track and set you up for long lasting success. Great advice from Brendon:)
Success and State of Being
By Andrea Scarsi June 21, 2017
Reaching success is in most cases the result of deliberate,
persistent, and constant action on a set of causal variables that allow a
positive outcome. In the spiritual world, as in business, people always ask if
there is a strategy or plan to follow, as if having a plan was the predictive
factor of the ability to achieve the desired result. Having a plan gives
clarity and direction and the ability to predict success at a rational level.
Of course, we have to follow it if we want it to give us the knack to transform
ourselves into masters of success production, and this, of course, depends only
on us. Only we can make magic happen.
The first element of predicting success is our commitment to
making the necessary changes, additions and cancellations of what needs to be
transformed within and around us. This allows us to live and ride the standard
set of success indicators to achieve our predictable desired goal. Using the
behavior template below will help predict our desired future success safely. Our
own opponent is only us. We should always strive to set the rudder bar of our
life on a superior course and progress steadily from what we currently are.
I feel competition as a motivation and see the success of
others as an inspiration of what is possible to achieve and overcome.
I get out of my comfort zone regularly and push to try, and
practice, new and bold things.
I manage my feelings, let them out, observe them, and
proceed with my decisions, behavior, and ability to move toward my goal.
I accept and love the challenge when it is launched, or I
hear that something can not be done; this invigorates and excites me.
I am always in action, even when I do nothing, and catch my
brain signals inciting me to get something new.
I control my mind and focus coherently on the positive and
how to capitalize it to build new strategies and achieve my results.
I depend on my trust in myself rather than my friends or
other human beings and realize that the most consistent and reliable source of
strength and support resides in my depths, and that, when I appreciate myself,
I can draw energy at any time.
I remember that I live in an infinite reality and have
endless abilities and opportunities to apply and consolidate the success
indicators that guide my path to what is already planned and due to me.
I'm on my way; I open to others, approach them, engage with
them, and get involved.
I push myself in all the ways; I talk, attend, join, invite,
and encourage.
I kindly let others enter; comfortably, routinely, and
inexorably.
The key to success is to be part of the whole.
Tony Robbins Tips On Changing The Way You Feel
Great tips from Tony. These have to be practiced to be believed. IT REALLY WORKS!
Realize Your Dreams In 10 Steps
By Adrie Kroon
1. Make a list of things that are really important to who you are. What is really important to you? Family ?, leisure ?, personal development, retirement?
2. Your goal off. Remember very well what you want to achieve, what is your goal? The more concrete the better. Consider then what you must do to achieve this.
3 See yourself in the future. E. Nightingale concluded after a study of what makes people successful: "We are what we think." The image that dominates our brains most of the time is how we ended up. Therefore, setting goals crucial in achieving success. It helps us keep the most important in life in mind. Nightingale says that the easiest way to achieve our goals is to pretend we have achieved already. In other words, walk, talk and pretend you experience all the success you look so forward. This acts as a self forfilling prophecy: where they believe, comes from.
4. Write 10 things you want to accomplish this year. By making a list of things you care about, you start creating images in your mind. These are your goals. These allow you convert knowledge into targeted action. When your goals are planted in your subconscious they will make you take action. Your behavior is influenced by your subconscious mind and the thoughts and ideas that you have in your subconscious - positive or negative-determine your actions.
5. Create your own storyboard. Take blank paper and paste pictures from magazines, magazines and newspapers on things that you want if you want to reach. We humans once thought in pictures. In this way, always keep your goals in your mind.
6. Write for yourself how your ideal day look. Write it in the present tense, as if it is so. Try to involve senses it. What you hear, what you taste, what you feel?
7. Visualize every day. Every morning and every evening visualize what your goal is and how your ideal life looks like.
8. Make a plan. Make a plan to reach your goal and resize it to daily steps so you know what each day to be your actions. Before going to sleep, make a list of the six things you will do the next day. In order of importance.
9. Evaluate your actions. Evaluate every week and month of your progress. What went well, what can you improve. If you get stuck, ask for help. If something is not working, try something new. Do not be afraid to try new things.
10. Never give up. Everything takes time, focus on your actions and not too much on the result, if you do your everyday actions and learn from it, then the result
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How to Create a Vision Board
People often underestimate the importance of creating powerful visions. This is a great 'How to' guide from Jack Canfield. Enjoy:)
Everyday Measures You Can Take To Boost Self Confidence
By Michael Cobb
Even the best leaders lack self-esteem at sure times. Boosting self-esteem isn't a static quality; rather, it’s an attitude that takes effort to keep up once the going gets rough. It should be learned, practiced and down a bit like the other talent. However once you master it, you may be modified for the higher.
Here are a unit six effective ways in which to push your own self-esteem.
1. Act the Part.
Your visual communication will instantly demonstrate boosting self-esteem, or it will scream insecurity. Gift yourself in an exceedingly method that says you're able to master or take command of any state of affairs. If you look esteem and act the half you aim to succeed in, you’ll not solely feel up to speed; individuals can have way more confidence in you yet.
Hold your head high, stay up straight, and gently bring your shoulders back to align your spine and appearance directly at the opposite person once interacting. Avoid a limp acknowledgement and maintain sensible eye contact whereas somebody is talking to you.
2. Dress the Half.
When you look higher, you are feeling higher. If you select article of clothing and accessories that fit your needs well, fit your trade and manner, and cause you to feel sensible, this may mechanically increase your vanity. Appear as if the half you wish to play, or in different words, suit up for achievement. Don’t be afraid to let your temperament shine in your accessories. Daring jewelry or a colorful tie will be a center of attention and a decent spoken communication starter.
3. Speak assertively.
The next time you hear your favorite speaker, be conscious of the method he or she delivers a speech. An excellent speaker speaks with confidence, in an exceedingly steady, Sapphic tone. Rather than the ums and ahs that interrupt flow, they use pauses to emphasize ideas.
Adopt associate assertive, however not aggressive, method of speaking that indicates your boosting self-esteem. You may feel your vanity begin to rise. To be taken seriously, avoid high-pitched, nervous chatter or twittering giggles in your speech. Individuals can hear you additional with attention after they see the leader radiate from among you.
4. Think and act absolutely.
Positive energy ends up in positive outcomes, thus set your mind to the dynamic aspect of any state of affairs, avoiding the negative self-talk that may because you to feel less esteem. Smile, laugh and surround yourself with happy, positive individuals. You’ll feel higher and therefore the individuals with whom you're employed can fancy your company.
Keep a feeling journal to prompt yourself of the high points of your day and your accomplishments. You may develop additional peace and confidence after you area unit in an exceedingly grateful state of mind.
5. Take action.
There’s additional to being esteem than simply however you look. You want to act the half. Walk up to a trespasser at a networking event, or settle for a project you’d ordinarily reject. It will eventually help boosting self-esteem and shortly it'll become habit.
Inaction breeds doubt and worry, whereas action breeds confidence and courageousness. As associate exercise, jot your strengths and weaknesses. The general public can tell you to figure on your weaknesses, however use what you have and make the most your strengths insead. Once you set additional energy into your positive traits, your confidence can begin to shine through.
6. Be Ready.
Remember the 5 P’s: Prior planning prevents poor performance. The more ready you’re the boosting self esteem will feel concerning your experience and ability. Preparation can assist you avoid obtaining tripped up by life’s surprising glitches.
Learn everything you'll be able to concerning your trade, your subject material, your goals and what drives you towards success. Before you begin a task, 1st imagine however you wish to feel once you’ve completed it. Don’t attempt to accomplish an excessive amount of quickly. Break complicated tasks up into tiny, bite-size, manageable items.
HOW TO AWAKEN YOUR GENIUS ?! - Dr. John Demartini
Amazing man Dr Demartini. Can you serve people in need and realize your dreams?
Great short video.
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